Image via Pixabay Written By: Alexis Hall The holidays can be difficult after a major life change like divorce. If you are splitting custody of your children, you may find yourself alone during a time when you used to be together…

WRITTEN BY WAYNE STOCKS When God first called me into this ministry, I have to say that it didn’t make any sense to me. I am not a child of divorce, not have I been divorced myself. Nonetheless, I began…

by Brian Dollar Most of us have witnessed a divorce within our congregations; many of us have seen it up close and personal in our own families. It doesn’t matter how big or small the church is, divorce goes well beyond…

Posted on August 7, 2017 by Linda Jacobs Recently, I received the following question from a church leader who works with single parents and children: “I have a single mom whose young children, ages three and five, have been visiting their dad for…

by Linda Jacobs When I was a little kid, we had these fascinating contraptions called Japanese finger traps. I believe they are also called Chinese finger puzzles or Chinese finger cuffs. This novelty toy is a lot of fun for kids.…

Author: Mark Steiner Nurturing one plant at a time Imagine the delight of a gardener carrying hard-earned baskets of carrots, tomatoes, beans, or potatoes into the house. The diligent labor—preparing the soil, planting the seeds, and cultivating the plants—is finally…

Posted on June 14, 2017 by Linda Jacobs Summer months can become very sticky, messy, and complicated for mothers, fathers, and children in divorced families. Divorce decrees can mandate that when school is out, and the children visit the other…

  WRITTEN BY WAYNE STOCKS I recently received correspondence from a young woman who is going through a divorce. She has young children aged three and five. The five-year old in particular is having issues with the divorce but burying…

This series is co-written by Linda Ranson Jacobs and Wayne Stocks. Choice and the Child of Divorce For the child of divorce, it is important to allow them to make choices. Choices empower a child who feels like everything is…

by Linda Jacobs The answer to this question can get complicated. Many divorcing parents think their children will get over the divorce fairly quickly. But what parents need to realize is while the adult life might go on and they…

By Michelle Peterson Valentine’s Day can be one of the most brutal holidays for single people to endure. While the holiday season can be tough to endure without a partner by your side, Valentine’s Day is sure to fill your…

Author: Linda Jacobs The teacher looked on, as 4-year old Elsa clung to her mom and screamed, “Don’t weave me, Mommy. Please don’t weave me.” The teacher was confused because little Elsa had always loved coming to her Sunday school…

Posted on November 21, 2016 by Linda Jacobs When I was growing up we would go to my grandmother’s for different holiday events. I remember at Christmas when the entire family including all our cousins would come together there were…

Posted on November 14, 2016 by Linda Jacobs Many times the child of divorce doesn’t comprehend the idea of being grateful. As a matter of fact many children of divorce get angry over the holidays. Being thankful is not on…

Show Love Clearly communicate that your child is loved. Children have a remarkable ability to heal when given the support and love they need. Your words, actions and abilities to remain consistent are all important tools to reassure your children…

Author: David Rausch There are few things as amazing as praying with a kid to become a Christian, but for some people, the thought of it is terrifying.  Questions might swirl through your head.  How do I do it?  What…

Posted on October 5, 2016 by Linda Jacobs Many pastors preach on finances from the pulpit. Some churches have financial advisors to assist people in their congregation. Helping families budget is important, and helping children understand the value of money…

September 16, 2016 · by Gail Cawley Showalter Have a Strategic Plan Boundaries Are Strategic Businesses have strategic plans. A strategic plan is a deliberate and intentional plan for each step of a business or endeavor. I find that women…

Each time your child hears a negative comment about someone they love (or are biologically a part of), their light dims just a little until they are really upset inside. When your child is upset on the inside, they act…

Posted on August 25, 2015 by Linda Jacobs Many children of divorce live hectic and frenzied lives. This is partly due to the fact that they live in two separate homes have two different sets of rules experience different schedules…

Posted on July 20, 2015 by Linda Jacobs Recently Brian Dollar, a Children’s Pastor and blogger, wrote on the subject of posting on Social Media and tweeting. The “T.H.I.N.K. Before You Post/Tweet” had some excellent ideas in it. Brian is…