Do not rush your healing process. When you first got married it was for better or worse. Obviously something terrible happened to get you in the place you are now in. Take the time to evaluate that and find your role in both the success and failures in your marriage. It is rarely a one-way street. Healing takes time. Do not rush it. Dive in and discover what there is to learn before moving on and involving others in your learning process.
- Find a DivorceCare group and surround yourself with others who are going through the same things you are.
- Ask your friends to be honest and tell you what you need to work on.
- Do not jump into another relationship until you have done the work and are ready for another relationship.
- Go to journeythroughdivorce.com and find various topics on divorce, single parenting, co-parenting and blending families.